Winter of Arctic Blasts

Near the beginning of the month, I needed to make a quick stop at Walmart. It was right before nap time which meant I was juggling a ticking bomb of cranky children, and probably rushing unnecessarily to get the five or so items on my list. As we entered the store, I pulled out a cart and started the process of inserting the children into said cart. My gaze was down, so the first thing I noticed of the man who passed me was his legs. He had knee length cut-off jeans and the temperature was below freezing. He had what looked like several layers of socks, all pulled up, but they only reached to the middle of his calf. From the top of the socks to his knee the skin on his legs was scaly, calloused, and clearly weather damaged. It looked like he had been wearing the socks so long that there was a ridge of calloused skin growing out over the top of them. I was slapped with the realization that this man was homeless in this brutal winter! I glanced up at his face and my heart hurt as I saw that his nose was a blackened scab and the tip of it had fallen off from frostbite.

He walked with firm determination, not looking at anyone, and went straight to the customer service desk. I robotically walked toward the grocery aisles, but couldn't help myself from watching his progress. When I saw him stand at the end of the long line at the customer service desk, I absently turned my cart and walked towards the men clothing section. I glanced around to see if there were any denim pants with flannel lining, glancing up to see if the man was still waiting in line. How would I know what size to get? Then I glanced at my children and was reminded of the ticking bomb as we approached nap-time. I felt torn.

Over the course of the minute since I saw him, I had gone through dozens of scenarios on how to approach this man and offer whatever service I could. I was also going over everything I knew of this small town community and realizing I didn't know of a single shelter or homeless service.

I decided to collect my short list of groceries first, then try to catch him in the customer service area and ask him if I could gift him a new pair of pants. I didn't know what else to do. Unfortunately when I returned to the front of the store he was no where in sight.

Later that week, a woman in my church was presenting a talk about relying on the Lord through trials. She shared with the congregation that during the economic crash of 2008 she had been evicted from her home and lived for a year in a tent by a river. I was completely transfixed by her story. I had talked with her and spent time with her daughter, but I didn't know they had gone through such a rough year. My thoughts returned to the man I saw in Walmart and I wondered how long he had been without a home. I wondered about his family and his history, and my heart ached. Maybe this was his one rough year in transition, but it had cost him dearly.

Since moving to Jonesville, I have complained a lot about my house, and the blogosphere hasn't even heard the half of it. This winter has been so brutal that I have felt imprisoned in this house many days. But my feelings have softened toward it. From the depths of my heart I am so grateful for this house. I am so grateful to have a functioning heater and enough space for my kids to run. I'm so grateful for the faucets with warm and cold water any time of day. I'm so grateful for protection from the bitter, bitter cold winds that bite at my skin and the piles and piles of snow. I'm so grateful for electricity, and lights, and big windows! In spite of it's partly dilapidated state, there's beautiful old house charm in the craft of this house. I'd rather be imprisoned in this paradise compared to the confines of a tent during windchills well below zero.

Many of our doorknobs are beautiful glass antiques.

Today we are in the midst of another arctic blast. The windchill when I woke up was -20, the temperature -8. I can't help but think of that homeless man. I've thought of him often since I saw him. I wish I had just followed my gut and bought the pants and given them to him before I hesitated. I wish I could've bought him much more. I hope some day when presented with a similar scenario I'm given a chance to try again.

Eating Curiousity

Most kids have their own food issues at one point or another, and my kids are no exception. That's not the point of this post. For at least a year, there has been a different dining quirk at our house.

I always serve the same food on a plate to each kid per meal. Without discussing it or planning it out, they tend to eat the opposite food as the other. On this morning, they got eggs and toast. Grace ate her toast and didn't touch her eggs. Henry devoured his eggs and took one tiny bite of toast after my coaxing. One dinner this week was ham, rice and broccoli. Both kids ate broccoli (thankfully) but Grace refused to eat more than three bites of rice, and Henry gagged on his one bite of ham. Otherwise they cleaned their plates.

A favorite lunch at our house includes cheese, crackers and fruit. They both eat the fruit. Henry always eats all the cheese, and normally leaves a cracker or two. Grace is the opposite, leaving some cheese.

This happens at maybe 50% of meals. It's so weird. They don't always have the same food preferences from meal to meal, either, but they still eat the opposite food as the other. They're served the same food, but eat completely different diets.

More Snow... I can't seem to stop myself

I know, I know, I keep posting about this winter, but it really is an amazing winter! I came to Minnesota to get away from my lonely tiny house while my husband is enjoying summer temperatures in TX for the month. I thought I had a lot of snow at my house...until I got here.

The snow is almost to the height of the base of the window. The pile is so high we can't see the cul-de-sac.

I grew up in this house with many a snowy winter, but I have never seen this much snow here.

I don't feel like photos accurately convey the magnitude of this pile of snow, so I took a few different angles.

That is my parents second story bedroom window behind the pile of snow.

Photo taken standing at the other end of the cul-de-sac. You could hide a small house in that pile of snow!

The sky is blue and lovely.

Walking through the yard, the snow is deeper than my knee. In some places where there's drifting I sink all the way to my crotch. It's pretty amazing.

p.s. back at home, today is snow day #11.

Snow Day #9

This is out of control.

I just looked at tomorrow's forecast and if it is as predicted, tomorrow will most likely be snow day #10. Windchills at -25 will do that.

Snow Day #8: Epic Fort

Outside: 4 large blankets, at least 3 small blankets, a towel, table, chairs, benches, a radiator...

Inside: lots of blankets and pillows, separate rooms, even a secret hiding room, and heat from the radiator :)

And cake. Because we wanted to. Happy February.

I'm so done with winter this year.

Can't get enough

Mother Nature must've gotten a memo that we needed more snow, so she kindly obliged.

I don't think I've lived through such a snowy winter as an adult. Despite growing up in Minnesota, I was never the one who had to drive or shovel... or encapsulate two wiggly children in layers and layers of clothing. It's exhausting!

This is our driveway. The pile Grace is on is just snow. It is taller than me.

We couldn't play in the backyard because it's so deep Henry couldn't move and Grace fell over every couple steps as she tried to wrestle through it. But they both loved playing in the front. And so did I. It was SO NICE to get out of the house after being shut in for January, including 7 days of cancelled school because of cold weather. Having temperatures hover around 30 felt like a heat wave!

So what did we do after playing in the snow in this heat wave? Went out for ice cream, of course! I've been really bad about too many sweets in the last couple days. We've also had Swiss Cake Rolls, marshmallows, fruit snacks, and this:

This is not peanut butter. It looks exactly like it, but it is not a nut butter at all. It is made out of crushed cookies. Really good crushed cookies.

It is right in the middle of the peanut butter selection, which is deceiving. I would never have seen it if it wasn't for a sample table a couple months ago at the grocery store. It is dangerous. Buy it only if you want to get sick from eating too much of it at once, because you can't stop yourself. But it might be worth it.